Sally, as the year starts again and full fledged winter of Baltimore has begun, I'm sitting here thinking of a few things, particularly the places I've been and the things I've seen. In the final month of last year, I spent it in Baltimore, Southern California and New York. This also includes my layovers in Las Vegas and Chicago - Midway airport.
Airports serve an interesting place in my life and I would think you too. Airports are an intersection of strangers about to embark on something in their lives. It's such a special place. One time I sat in the departure section waiting for my mom in Melbourne, Australia. The departure section is where people say their goodbyes, heart wrenching ones, hugs. I saw and felt it all in a span of 15 minutes. The departure section is the only place where my dad hugs me and gives me a kiss on my head.
This last month I spent sometime on planes, cars, subways and buses, my unknowingly favorite activity in life. New York is one of those places where you go with no plans because there's always so much to do. I went to see one of my favorite bands of this year - Lucius. They are such a lovely band. I love every single song they sing.
This was New York:
Arrived late at night where my friend had me meet her off of Court St. metro. She had a few martinis in and it was pouring rain. I loved it. We walked over to her friends who were at a bar called
Dutch Kills. This place was my kind of bar, you walk in to what feels like a saloon. This place reminds me of the speakeasy in
Cole's Intimate booths filled with friends and people flank a narrow walkway. Dark brown, with dimmed lights, and a waiter who was originally from Baltimore, my friend was in love with him and perhaps I was too for about 2 minutes. I had some sort of hot toddy, her friends were fun, very New York, quick witted and talkative. It was intimate although I had just met them and they knew nothing about me. I didn't talk too much either, but I didn't really need to, the city was talking and I was listening. We went home to Brooklyn-ish area and had a few quesadillas.
I "slept in" (i.e. until 10 am). Her apartment was very New York: she lived with a Lesbian couple who seemed to be doing some sort of artsy thing. They were very clean, the apartment was small but large for a New York apartment and also cutely decorated with plants. There was a cat and a kitten. I've never been around a kitten before but it was annoying (but adorable).
We met up with my two other friends for brunch. I hadn't seen these friends in a little over two years so I was excited. I asked them to meet me at 11 am. I showed up at 11 am to
Marietta in Clinton Hill and was confused. It was empty. To myself, I thought, why did my friend choose an empty place? I didn't care and thought it was cool but was wondering why it was so empty. Apparently after they all arrived, I learned that brunch in New York doesn't start until 1 pm.
Why didn't you tell me?!
Well, we don't mind this time, plus we can actually hear each other. Regular brunch is stupid.
Oh okay.
And perhaps the people at Marietta hadn't woken up either. I asked for Earl Grey tea but they gave me decaf earl grey. Then I asked for a different one with caffeine in it (because wtf) and they said English Tea - but they gave me cheap ($3.00 for 50 packets) Lipton tea. This place will forever be the place where I bought one packet of lipton english tea for $3.00. Aside from that, I had fun catching up with my friends and laughing with them. All three started to complain like New Yorkers and I relished in their grumpiness. I wondered if (and perhaps hoped) I too would be grumpy by the end of the trip. They're wonderful people and I miss them dearly but that's the nature of my friendships being such a mobile person. I see them and we reconnect like no time has passed. This is all I know about friendships really.
The rest of the day was spent with my friend
Donna who does illustration in New York. I was excited that she proposed we go to an art museum because I often can't find someone who wants to do that with me. To my delight we went to
The Museum of Modern Art (MOMA) I've been to the one in San Francisco and have always wanted to go to this one but my New York trips were always in such haste that I don't have time to slow down in a museum. Since it was raining, everyone and their mom's decided to go to MOMA. There was long snake like line for tickets, everyone was super puffy from their coats and it was stuffed. Tensions were high:
WE'RE LEAVING!! I'VE BEEN IN LINE FOR COAT CHECK AND THEY WON'T LET US CHECK IN WITH OUR COATS BECAUSE WE DON'T HAVE TICKETS. -said the overly frustrated father to his kids.
Well okay. I was entertained. We saw super famous works of art. I loved one floor while Donna loved another. I learned that she liked art in a very different way than I do and I loved that I learned that about her and was so interesting because for some reason I think - doesn't everyone like to see what I see? But that wasn't the case. I like art that has a lot of meaning and process to it, but may not really seem like "art."
I was staring at a canvas that was full of different subtle shades of black. I loved it. I inched closer to see what it was about and it gave me this quote:
"I don't understand in a painting," he said, "the love of anything except the love of painting itself"
Looking at art makes me hungry. Then I had what I believe to be crack but in food form,
Halal Guys. It was raining so we couldn't enjoy it outside so we sneaked into another cafe with our bright yellow bag. Devoured it and went on to go see one of my favorite bands of the year, Lucius, at
Terminal 5.
Terminal 5 is a great large but intimate venue. Aside from the large disco ball that hung above us, the venue is three stories with the ability to stand on all those levels - we chose the ground floor. The band was nothing short of amazing - they crowd surfed through the audience, went into the audience to sing amongst us, and also said hello to their entire family who was sitting on the left side of second floor. They shared with us their magic and made us wear white for the winter. At the end, they sang a Christmas song and all this white confetti fell on us. It was a fantastic final show of the year.
The next day was a bit of a blur of running around Chinatown, finding dried guava, dim sum, and catching the bus back to Baltimore.